Three pitfalls in dating Ukrainian women.
You are returning from a date with a Ukrainian woman proud of yourself. Everything went perfectly: you walked well, talked about a lot, she laughed at your jokes. Inspired, you make plans for the next date, but the girl refuses to go out with you, and then completely disappears from your life. You are left with one question: "What and when did I do wrong?" If you have not yet encountered such a situation, we will help you avoid such misunderstandings.
Who pays for what?
Nothing disappoints a Ukrainian girl like the obligation to pay for herself on dates. This is hard to understand for European and American men who have been told from childhood about absolute gender equality. But in Ukraine and Russia, feminism is developing a little differently than in Europe and America. Girls seek equality in the social and professional spheres, and in interpersonal relations they clearly distinguish between male and female roles. In their understanding, a man should take care of his woman, admire her and protect her. Paying for dinner at a restaurant is the least he can do for his beloved. The more he invests in a woman, the more he values her. For many girls, a man's willingness to sacrifice something for them is a very important aspect of a relationship. If a Ukrainian woman volunteered to pay for herself, she is most likely not interested in you as in a man. You can remain friends, partners in business matters, but you should not count on more.
When will she say yes?
Love at first sight, passion after the first date is basically an illusion. Even if the Ukrainian woman really liked you on the first date, you will have to win her trust for a long time. Don't think that foreign citizenship is your advantage. On the contrary, foreigners are treated more wary. The language barrier, peculiarities of culture, mentality - all this must be taken into account by the girl before she believes in your true intentions. Someone will need 3-4 meetings, some will need 10. Try to give her 100% attention on a date. Remain courteous and delicate, do not demand quick decisions from her. Get ready for a long marathon distance to conquer the Ukrainian woman and slowly overcome the girl's mistrust.
Leave or stay?
The girls who have posted their information on a dating site are ready to leave their homeland and go to live in another country. But a lot of time passes between this decision and the real possibility. A girl can change her mind and refuse to leave the country, leave relatives. Do not despair and try to convince her otherwise. Manipulation and blackmail will only scare her away, and you will lose your hard-earned trust. Try to find out what made her change her mind. The cause may be easy to fix. It happens that a girl received incorrect information about the country, customs, heard the sad story of an emigrant. Be patient, debunk myths, regain confidence in you and your country. Convince the girl that you will always be there, no matter what happens. But most importantly, be yourself, listen to your lady of the heart, speak sincerely and you will overcome any difficulties and misunderstandings.